Monday, December 31, 2018

December 24-31, 2018 - Christmas and New Years Eve

While many of our British ordinance workers go to their homes during the holidays, the black badge (foreign) missionaries stay here at the Temple, so we organized a Christmas Eve Dinner and a Christmas Brunch.  Following are a few pictures from these get-togethers. 

We had four round tables with 5-6 missionaries per table.

Here's the table with ham, baked potatoes and the spicy British mustard.

The salad and vegetable table.

Elder Wolsey ordered an ample supply of Dad's root beer from Amazon!

Following dinner we played what all older folks play - BINGO!

Elder Burkinshaw his Irish alter-ego, Brother Murphy (we kid him a lot about his "law" - i.e. Murphy's Law) enjoy a joke while playing bingo together on the same team.

We had a program with singing of most of the favorite Christmas carols. 

More of the group singing Christmas carols.

Last picture of the Christmas carolers.

Elder McQuivey reading the Christmas Story from Luke 2.

The "white elephant" gift exchange with the other temple ordinance workers after the Christmas-Eve Dinner.

Sister Wolsey read a fun version of the "Night Before Christmas" which told us which way to pass the gifts.

Elder and Sister Burkinshaw in front of the Christmas Tree after our Christmas Eve dinner with the other temple ordinance workers in the Accommodations Centre dining room.

Elder Burkinshaw demonstrates how to get an Oreo from your forehead into your mouth.

Elder Burkinshaw finishing off an Oreo by sticking out his tongue to capture it once he gets it onto his cheek.

For Christmas morning, we had a Christmas brunch with the missionaries that were still at the temple.

First course for the Christmas Brunch was breakfast casserole.  Sister Burkinshaw's casserole in the one on the right which is almost gone.

Elder Burkinshaw carved the sage seasoned turkey, which was a delicious part of our brunch.

We had lots of delicious vegetables including salads.

Fruit, rolls and juice rounded out our brunch.

Sister Jensen (Ogden, UT) and Sister Burkinshaw at the brunch with Elder Burkinshaw's plate of brunch front and center.

Sister Carla Haines (Phoenix, AZ), Sister Cindy and Elder Lynn Turner (Blackfoot, ID), and Elder Marvin and Sister Stephanie Smith (Provo, UT formerly Atlanta, GA).

Sister Brenda and Elder Ron Linford (Casper, WY) and Elder Barry Wolsey (Raymond, AB)

Sister and Elder Mueller (Herriman, UT) and Sister Ruse (Logan, UT)

Elder Burkinshaw eating some authentic British Christmas pudding.  Very interesting,  which is a euphemistic description! ;-)

After several months of on-line study for the written test and hazard identification test and later, driving lessons for the driving test, Elder Burkinshaw finally received his UK Driving Licence for Christmas!  Here in the UK, you can drive on your US license for 1 year but after that you're required to have a UK licence or give up your car.  


Sister Burkinshaw serves as a ministering sister to Sister Cheryl Ann Guenther so for Boxing Day, we invited the Guenthers to attend the new movie, Mary Poppins Returns and for Nando's chicken afterwards.

After a morning movie, Mary Poppins Returns, we enjoyed peri peri chicken at Nando's with Brother Jim and Sister Cheryl Ann Guenther.


Our dear friends, Elder Raul and Sister Karen McQuivey will be returning home after serving for a year here at the London Temple.  Saturday, December 29 was Sister McQuivey's 80th birthday so we took her out to one of our favorite restaurants, The Red Barn, which is less than 10 minutes north of the Temple.


The Red Barn Country Pub and Dining.

The Red Barn decorated for Christmas.  Note the bookshelves along the back wall behind the Christmas Wreath.
Sister Karen and Elder Raul McQuivey (Oakton, VA) out for dinner at the Red Barn restaurant in Blindley Heath.  The Sister McQuivey and Sister Burkinshaw had fresh trout and Elder McQuivey and Elder Burkinshaw had steak.  The occasion was Sister McQuivey reaching the status of octagenarian!


For New Years Eve, we went into London for a group dinner and to see the matinee performance of A Christmas Carol at The Old Vic theatre in the Waterloo section of London.  It was a great way to celebrate the end of the Christmas season and our lunch, the music, singing and acting were exceptional.

We had lunch at an upscale Italian restaurant a short distance from The Old Vic theatre called La Barca (Italian for "The Ship").

Sister Burkinshaw in front of La Barca Ristorante in Waterloo, London.

Our group included ten temple missionaries:  Elder Raul and Sister Karen McQuivey, Elder  Barry and Sister LuAnne Wolsey, Elder Ron and Sister Brenda Linford, Elder Jim and Sister Cheryl Ann Guenther and Elder Jeff and Sister Stacey Burkinshaw.

When we arrived at The Old Vic theatre for the show, there was quite a line even though we all had reserved tickets.

The Old Vic stage is quite unique in the center with the audience all around.
  
Our tickets were in the Dress Circle which was the first balcony and there was a second balcony as well.  It appeared that almost all the seats had an unobstructed stage view.

A selfie and Elder and Sister Burkinshaw up in the Dress Circle.

Elder and Sister Burkinshaw in front of the theatre after the performance. The show began at 2:30 pm when it was still light but when we exited about 4:45 pm it was completely dark.

One brief experience.  On the last veil of the last year in the Temple, Elder Burkinshaw was receiving when a brother was struggling with the ceremony and it was obvious that English was not his primary language and without any indication of his native language - normally a foreign language speaker would have a language card pinned to his shirt.  Then, as he sighed, Elder Burkinshaw recognized a word and immediately switched to Portuguese.  The brother excitedly responded and was obviously well-versed in the Portuguese veil and completed the ceremony without hesitation.  The fact that this patron came to the only veil where there was someone who could speak Portuguese was a tender mercy, an reminder that Our Father in Heaven is aware of each of our needs and provides lovingly for His children.

 As we come to the end of the holiday season, we recall the words of a reformed Ebeneezer Scrooge,

“I will honor Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year. I will live in the Past, the Present, and the Future. The Spirits of all Three shall strive within me.’’

May we all be changed for the better by our increased understanding of the Savior of all men, His longsuffering, meekness, humility, diligence and love for all, including those who may appear to be unlovable.  "God Bless Us, Every One!"

Elder and Sister Burkinshaw 

Monday, December 24, 2018

December 23, 2018 - Runup to Christmas

Since our last post, we have had a number of Christmas Activities and visits to several sites to see the Christmas decorations. We have filled the weeks with Christmas lights, decorations, delicious food, music and of course daily visits to the temple both to serve the patrons and to do work for our own and others kindred dead. What a wonderful place the temple is to be at Christmas time. It was nice to take a few quiet moments in the Celestial room and express gratitude to a loving Heavenly Father for His most precious gift, for He is "....the Living Christ, the immortal Son of God. He is the great King Immanuel, who stand today on the right hand of His Father. He is the light, the life, and the hope of the world. His way is the path that leads to happiness in this life and eternal life in the world to come. God be thanked for the matchless gifts of His divine Son." (The Living Christ, 2000)

Now a run down of our extracurricular activities for the past couple of weeks. On Monday, December 10, 2018, we had the Temple Ordinance Worker Lunch in the Accommodation Center dining room and then a Devotional with the Temple Presidency in the Visitors Center.  This was also Sister Burkinshaw's birthday but due to the time difference, we were all finished with the lunch and devotional when our children made their birthday calls.

Temple Ordinance Worker Christmas Devotional Luncheon serving table.

Elder and Sister Burkinshaw's plates at the Christmas Devotional Luncheon.
Since Sister Burkinshaw celebrated her 60th birthday on the same day as the devotional she had the added surprise of a small chocolate cake and everyone singing happy birthday. Sister Ludlow just happened to be walking around to the tables taking pictures with her camera when they sang so she provided the video below. The BEST part of her day came from reading the birthday wishes from children, grandchildren, siblings, extended family and friends. (Thanks Jenny for putting that together.) It was really a wonderful birthday gift and will be enjoyed for years to come!!



Sister Burkinshaw's birthday gifts including flowers from President and Sister Otterson, a cake and birthday cards from the Freeman's and Peel's. We have been blessed with very a very thoughtful temple presidency.

Additional birthday gifts for Sister Burkinshaw including cupcakes (made by Sister Wolsey), cards and flowers.

Sister Burkinshaw's birthday card and earrings with necklace from Sister McQuivey

Singing "Happy Birthday" to Sister Burkinshaw at the Christmas Devotional Luncheon.



One of our neighbors, the Days, kept a nifty deer outside their flat and each morning there were chocolate "droppings" on the floor! ;-)

Our Temple Ordinance Worker Choir sang for the devotional but we didn't get pictures of that but we did get pictures when we sang at the Orpington Ward Christmas Carol concert on Sunday, December 17.

The London Temple Ordinance Worker Choir singing at the Orpington Ward Christmas Carol concert.  Sister Burkinshaw, as always, is the pianist.

The London Temple Ordinance Worker Choir singing at the Orpington Ward Christmas Carol concert.  Elder Burkinshaw is visible in this picture.

On our Monday day off, we went to Standen House, which is an estate built in the late 1880's where the grounds and home are preserved and decorated for the season.  It's a fun way to see how the English aristocracy lived at that time.  It's similar to what you might see at Downton Abbey.

Christmas tree in the courtyard decorated with various cross-stitched ornaments.


One of several Christmas trees throughout the house with some turn-of-the-century dolls.

Stairway and landings decorated.

Standen House stairway decorated for Christmas.

Yet another Christmas tree set up at the bottom of the staircase.

The dining room set up for holiday festivities.

The Christmas tree in the library.


An original copy of the first colored storybook entitled "The Visit of St Nicholas" but which eventually became known as "The Night Before Christmas"

The backdrop for the children to act out their plays in the drawing room.  Note the basket of costumes at the side.

An explanation of the Drawing Room Dramas that took place at Standen House when occupied by the Beales.

Of course one always has to take advantage of the mistletoe when it's available! ;-)

December 21 is the shortest day of the year, so we provide a screen from WeatherChannel which shows that we are far enough north that there was less than 8 hours daylight.

Shortest day of the year shows 7 hours of 54 minutes of daylight.

On Friday afternoon, December 21, after our early shift in the London Temple we drove over to Hever Castle to see their Christmas decorations.



The entrance to Hever Castle about 3:45pm in the afternoon, just before it got dark.

Hever Castle with the bushes and trees decorated for Christmas.  The castle itself was lit by a variety of shifting shades of light.

Sister Burkinshaw in front of the purple Hever Castle.

In the Hever Castle courtyard was a tree with a nativity scene set up in the branches.

The drawing room of Hever Castle set up for Christmas, all the arrangements were done with fresh greenery--they were beautiful and smelled wonderful.

The grand dining room with Christmas decorations

Another of the drawing rooms festively decorated for the season.

Nutcrackers guard the chimney where St Nick will emerge early Christmas morning with a nearby Christmas tree and candles.

More nutcrackers protecting the grand wedding tapestry for Henry VIII and Anne Boelyn.

A laser light show was presented at the lake adjacent to Hever Castle.

The light show was choreographed with classical music.

The pictures don't really do justice to the light show, but it was very nice.

Sister Burkinshaw among the festively decorated Christmas trees outside.  The snow was artificial as it was about 45°F outside - unusually warm.

Elder Burkinshaw amongst the Christmas trees on the grounds of Hever Castle.

Sister Burkinshaw along the Christmas path at Hever.  Note the beautiful full moon.

The Christmas was at Hever used A Christmas Carol theme and Scrooge was shown with the three different ghosts of Christmas.

We finish our post with some pictures at our apartment showing the cards and gifts we have received from our kind colleagues and fellow ward members as well as the nativities we have acquired for Sister Burkinshaw's collection while we have been here.

This basket of goodies was a gift from our special friend Pam Lunn who is normally the organist/pianist for the Addlestone Ward.  She and Sister Burkinshaw played an organ and piano duet of Hark the Herald Angels Sing for our Christmas eve eve sacrament meeting.  Since Pam has been called to the Stake RS Presidency, Sister Burkinshaw plays the organ in her stead when she is traveling to other units.


All our Christmas cards are set up on the window sill looking out our back window with our potted amaryllis flowers.  It is beautiful to see the lush green grass. 

On the left is a wooden carved nativity that we bought in Lucerne, Switzerland.  On the right is a carved wood nativity we got in Killarney, Ireland.  In the center is a molded set of carolers with a scroll of music from the Christmas carol "The Holly and the Ivy" which we found at the gift shop at Hever Castle. This is a favorite Christmas carol for the British and we sang it at the temple ordinance worker Carol Concert held Wednesday, Dec. 19th. There are two Christmas crackers in front also a British tradition. A cracker consists of a segmented cardboard tube wrapped in a brightly decorated twist of paper with a prize in the middle, making it resemble an oversized sweet-wrapper. The cracker is pulled apart by two people, each holding an outer chamber, causing the cracker to split unevenly and leaving one person holding the central chamber and prize. The split is accompanied by a mild bang or snapping sound.

Despite being apart from our children and grandchildren, we feel very blessed to be here serving in the London Temple at this time.  We aren't at liberty to speak of the many special and spiritual experiences we have here in the Temple but they are very real and significant.  

Early one morning last week, I felt inspired to summarize the momentous events that have transpired in the past 15 months in the history of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  The Lord's hand can surely be seen and an unmistakable message emerges.  The summary begins with a teaching and warning from the Prophet Joseph Smith.

“I have tried for a number of years to get the minds of the Saints prepared to receive the things of God; but we frequently see some of them, after suffering all they have for the work of God, will fly to pieces like glass as soon as anything comes that is contrary to their traditions: they cannot stand the fire at all. How many will be able to abide a celestial law, and go through and receive their exaltation, I am unable to say, as many are called, but few are chosen [see D&C 121:40].” (“Chapter 45: Joseph Smith’s Feelings about His Prophetic Mission,” Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph Smith (2011), 518)

27 Oct 2017:  In a letter to all General Authorities, General Officers and Area Seventies, entitled “Your Role in Helping to Reduce and Simplify the Programs and Initiatives of the Church”, the First Presidency said, “As members of the Church strive to better focus on what is truly essential, they are able to center their lives on the Savior and His gospel. To this end, it is incumbent upon each of us to more fully engage in seeking ways to lessen the burdens placed on Church leaders and members. As general and area Church officers and department managers, you play a significant role in carrying out this charge by prayerfully identifying the essential work of your areas of responsibilities and departments, simplifying that essential work, and reducing or eliminating nonessential tasks.

27 Oct 2017:  In a Letter to all Church Members, the First Presidency said that the two General Women’s Sessions the week before General Conference would be eliminated and the Saturday evening Sessions would be simplified with Priesthood Meeting in April and General Women’s Meeting in October.

14 Dec 2017:  In a First Presidency Letter, Priests were authorized to serve as baptizers and witnesses for proxy baptisms in the templesLaurels were authorized to assist in baptistry roles previous reserved for endowed sisters.

16 Jan 2018:  President Nelson, newly set apart as the President of the Church said, “Now, to each member of the Church I say: Keep on the covenant path. Your commitment to follow the Savior by making covenants with Him and then keeping those covenants will open the door to every spiritual blessing and privilege available to men, women, and children everywhere. As a new presidency, we want to begin with the end in mind. For this reason, we're speaking to you today from a temple. The end for which each of us strives is to be endowed with power in a house of the Lord, sealed as families, faithful to covenants made in a temple that qualify us for the greatest gift of God, that of eternal life. The ordinances of the temple and the covenants you make there are key to strengthening your life, your marriage and family, and your ability to resist the attacks of the adversary. Your worship in the temple and your service there for your ancestors will bless you with increased personal revelation and peace and will fortify your commitment to stay on the covenant path.” (Church News)

31 Mar 2018:  In General Conference it was announced that Melchizedek Priesthood Quorums would be simplified by including High Priests and Elders in a single Elders Quorum.  Home and Visiting Teaching were “retired” and replaced with a simplified but better focused ”Ministering” program.

01 Apr 2018:  President Russell M Nelson warned, “You don’t have to wonder about what is true.  You do not have to wonder whom you can safely trust. Through personal revelation, you can receive your own witness that the Book of Mormon is the word of God, that Joseph Smith is a prophet, and that this is the Lord’s Church. Regardless of what others may say or do, no one can ever take away a witness borne to your heart and mind about what is true.
In coming days, it will not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, comforting, and constant influence of the Holy Ghost.   My beloved brothers and sisters, I plead with you to increase your spiritual capacity to receive revelation.”

08 May 2018:  In a Joint Statement, the Church announced it would end BSA sponsorship at the end of 2019.  A new youth leadership and development program will replace scouting.

04 Sep 2018:  Saints (Volume 1): The Story of the Church of Jesus Christ in the Latter Days is published.  Unlike past histories, which were primarily written as reference works, Saints is written as a narrative that is engaging to read and is also a multilayered history that allows readers to explore topics in depth with links to explanatory topics and the primary sources behind the text. It is based on decades of rigorous research.

06 Oct 2018:  In General Conference, “A New Balance between Gospel Instruction in the Home and in the Church” was announced with a simplified 2 hour block meeting schedule in 2019.  Individuals and families were encourage to study the gospel at home on Sundays.


14 Dec 2018:  In a First Presidency Letter, a simplified  Age-Group Progression for Children and Youth was announced where children and youth advance in Aaronic Priesthood, Young Women and Primary classes at the beginning of the calendar year of their respective birthday rather than on their individual birthdays..

30 Oct 2018:  The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has been officially organized for 188 years—exactly double the age of President Russell M. Nelson.  From a room overlooking the newly dedicated ConcepciĆ³n Chile Temple, President Nelson spoke about the “young Church,” which has only spanned about two lifetimes.  “If you think the Church has been fully restored, you are just seeing the beginning. There is much more to come.” (Church News)

28 Nov 2018:  "Wait until next year," President Nelson said in an interview … "Eat your vitamin pills. Get your rest." (Deseret News)

"The best is yet to come."

Elder and Sister Burkinshaw